Friday, November 6, 2015

Not Easily Broken

“Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not easily broken.” (Ecclesiastes 4:12)

The above passage is about the strength of union.

And union is altogether different than unity.

Unity means agreeing together.  But union means joined together.

Taking the wisdom passage from Ecclesiastes 4:12 and applying the principle of union in marriage, let's start with two loose pieces of cord.


Both pieces of cord on their own have a certain degree of strength, but put to the test, if one gets cut or frayed, it can easily break. Two are indeed stronger than one. But how do you bind two strands of cord together?


Try as you might, you can twist two strands of cord together, but they are not bound, and soon, they will completely unravel. There is no union as they are not properly joined or braided.


Only three cords can be properly braided together, where they are in union. They are essentially joined together as One. Together, they are exponentially stronger, and are not easily broken.

Applying that same principle to husband and wife, specifically to my own marriage, in the beginning, my wife and I did not know God. We were just two loose yarns. And though we loved each other, because we were not properly joined together, we came unraveled more times than I can count. We would try to fix our problems, but without the Third Cord to properly braid us together, we were unraveling past the breaking point. Countless breakups. Multiple separations. Two divorce proceedings. Infidelity. Spite. Malice. Bitterness. Unforgiveness. Shame. Hopelessness.

The only reason we are still married, and happily I might add, after almost 29 years, is we met the Third Cord; the Lord Jesus Christ.

When you accept God's free offer of eternal salvation, and confess your sins and invite Jesus Christ into your heart to forgive you and be your Savior, you are spiritually Born Again.When my wife and I did this, we were no longer two loose yarns, hopelessly doomed to a future of perpetual unraveling.

Christ bound us together with Himself. We were now "One." We were, and still are the threefold cord that is not easily broken.

“So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” (Ephesians 5:28-31)



God is Love and Love Never Fails.





Friday, October 2, 2015

Not Your Homeboy

"And who do you say that I am?"
—Jesus

A few years ago I used to see t-shirts or bumper stickers that said, "Jesus is my homeboy."

No, He isn't.

He is not your homeboy, your homie, your dawg, your co-pilot, your boyfriend, or your cool buddy. He is not your private genie in a bottle, who will give you your every wish. He is not your divine Santa Claus.

Jesus Christ is the Lord God Almighty!

He is the Lamb of God. He is the Lord of lords and the King of kings. He is the Messiah, the Suffering Servant, and the Savior of the world. He is the Righteous Judge. He spoke the entire creation into existence. He holds all things together by the Word of His power. He is seated on His Heavenly throne and is coming back to earth on the clouds of Heaven, in power and great glory, to judge a Christ-rejecting, sinful world, and to put down all evil, perversion, and corruption.

But today so many portray Him as some kind of laid-back, limp-wristed, surfer dude, who will excuse and wink at all their evil doings, giving them anything they want. I've heard people say he is "a cool guy to hang out with."

Not long ago I heard a Seattle pastor say of Jesus; "You have no idea who you're dealing with!"

What message did Jesus began His ministry with?

“Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” (Matthew 4:17)

Jesus commanded His disciples to go make disciples. He didn't send His followers out to try and make Him "cool" to the world.

Study the entire New Testamentthrough the end of the Book of Revelation. Look at all the sayings of Jesus. What He taught. Who He said He was. What He did for us. And what He is coming back to earth to do at His Second Coming. Jesus is revealed from Genesis through Revelation. 

Get to know the authentic Jesus.

When you represent Jesus to the world, make sure you represent Him as He is, as His Word says He is. Not according to the whims, slogans, or feelings of this twisted, corrupt and perverse culture. 

I am especially appealing to all young followers of Christ today: Preach the real Jesus, and the entire message that Jesus and His disciples preached. Not the watered-down, false message of this fallen world. Jesus does not need you to try and make Him "cool" to the world. He needs you to make Him known.

Amen.

“Behold, He is coming with clouds, and every eye will see Him, even they who pierced Him. And all the tribes of the earth will mourn because of Him. Even so, Amen!” (Revelation 1:7)



God is Love and Love Never Fails.

Thursday, September 24, 2015

Stay Loose In The Saddle


   Photo ©Mark Faulkner 2009

Amazing... how suddenly the seasons of life can change.

I am slowly, painfully, learning to be careful of the expectations I have of people, situations, and outcomes.

In fact, the one constant is that things are constantly changing. And it is when I think I have things figured out, and I think I know what people are going to do, and how things will turn out, that the unexpected happens.

For years I have been hearing the phrase "stay loose in the saddle."  And I continue to learn why that is so important.  Things are continuously changing.  The unexpected happens.  Things don't always go according to my plan. 

The things of this life are all just seasons.  And seasons change. 

It's all about being content with how things are right now. Being thankful for the people in your life today, for the job you have, and for all the good things in your life.  Enjoy the relationships you have right now, and make the most of the time you have today.  Because you never know when things are going to change.  People move away, take new jobs, go in different directions.  I am learning to simply expect this to happen.

It is what it is.

But knowing all this, that unexpected things happen, why do I get so up-ended when things don't go how I think they will?   Maybe it's because I am more of a control freak than I thought I was? 

We have to let people be who they are.  The most uncomfortable situation we can put someone in is to try to force them into the mold of our expectations.  People have to choose their own path, and they may not want to take the advice we offer them.  We may think we know what is best for someone, and give them what we believe is sound advice from our point of view.  But don't be surprised when people do the opposite. Even when we think they are making the worst possible choice, ultimately, it is their choice to make.

You can't live another person's life for them.

When you truly love someone, it's okay to let them know you don't agree with the choices they make. But let them know that even though you disagree with them, you're still going to be there for them.

I'm learning that following my heart is not always a good thing, because my heart can deceive me.  I need to let my mind lead my heart.  The heart wants what the heart wants, but, in my experience, that is definitely not always a good thing.  Not all the desires of my heart are pure, nor are they God's will for me.  I have to be very discerning, and ask God for His wisdom.

"My son, if you receive my words, and treasure my commands within you, so that you incline your ear to wisdom, and apply your heart to understanding; yes, if you cry out for discernment, and lift up your voice for understanding, if you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures; then you will understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God. For the LORD gives wisdom; from His mouth come knowledge and understanding; He stores up sound wisdom for the upright; He is a shield to those who walk uprightly; He guards the paths of justice, and preserves the way of His saints. Then you will understand righteousness and justice, equity and every good path. When wisdom enters your heart, and knowledge is pleasant to your soul, Discretion will preserve you; Understanding will keep you." (Proverbs 2:1-11)

Ultimately, God works it all outHe works all things together for good for those who love Him, and are called according to His purpose.  Even when we choose the wrong path, God will graciously show us where we erred, and point us back to the path He has for us.  But we have to have our ears open to hear His voice, and the soil of our heart must be soft and broken up so that His seeds of wisdom may land there and take root, and bear much fruit to Him. 

Stay loose in the saddle. 

When you choose a path that God shows you was the wrong choice, turn from your error and get back on track with where He placed you.  And when someone you love does the opposite of what you recommended they do, keep loving and encouraging them.  It is when we make a poor choice and God shows us our error, that we need true friends to come alongside us and love us through the season of healing that we will need to walk through. 

It's wonderful that we don't have to walk that path alone.

"There is a friend sticks closer than a brother."

(This is a post I originally published in 2010, but seemed good to publish here again today...)



God is Love and Love Never Fails.

Thursday, September 17, 2015

Word For The Day

Word For The Day

“But take heed to yourselves, lest your hearts be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness, and cares of this life, and that Day come on you unexpectedly. For it will come as a snare on all those who dwell on the face of the whole earth. Watch therefore, and pray always that you may be counted worthy to escape all these things that will come to pass, and to stand before the Son of Man.” 
—Jesus
(Luke 21:34-36)

Jesus always focused on our hearts. He taught that adultery and murder both begin in the heart. And here He says we need to be careful and take heed to ourselves... "lest our hearts be weighed down."

The cares of this life can make a heart and life weighed down and unfruitful. Self-idolatry, political fanaticism, materialism, hedonism; all these keep one's eyes off the Lord and on the self...a sure-fire recipe for depression, delusion, and disaster.


The only way to be counted worthy to stand before the Son of man is to place your faith in Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord.  Then He counts you as righteous. You have none of your own. 

Only by repenting of your sin and believing in the sacrificial death of Jesus Christ and His resurrection, can you be saved from your sin, which has separated you from God.

Jesus said,

"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.

“He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed."
(John 3:16-20)

Turn your heart to Jesus.

There is only a certain amount of time left...


God is Love and Love Never Fails.



Sunday, August 23, 2015

A Great Light Has Dawned

“The people who sat in darkness have seen a great light, and upon those who sat in the region and shadow of death, Light has dawned.” 
(Matthew 4:16)


Jesus had just spent forty days and nights fasting in the desert wilderness. Satan, having come to Him three times to try and tempt Him, had failed to do so. Then Jesus' angels came to Him and served Him.

Thus, Jesus began His Galilean ministry.

The first thing it says of Jesus after this is:

“From that time Jesus began to preach and to say, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” (Matthew 4:17)

I love the Word of God. It makes all things so simple.  

Jesus didn't go out and hire a business manager and professional musicians, scout out suitable venues or amphitheaters, and arrange for various food vendors. He didn't have evangelistic programs printed up and signature cards for new believers. 

No, He went out, filled and empowered by the Holy Spirit, and He preached; saying, "Repent, for the kingdom of Heaven is at hand" (or, has come near).

How rare it is that anyone still does this today.

We think we need to practice "friendship evangelism"which basically means, get to know someone first, build a good relationship with them, then spring the gospel on them. You'll have less chance of offending someone with the gospel if you've taken several weeks, or even months to build a good friendship with them first. Or, so people seem to think.

But Jesus and His disciples didn't do this.

They simply preached the Gospel as they went along. They weren't trying to be politically correct.

Preaching repentance is something you hear less and less of these days. Many people will say, "We're just supposed to love people."

One guy I know said to me, "All I'm commanded to do is love my fellow man."

However, that is not all Christ commands His followers to do.

The Word could have stated, "And from that time Jesus went out and just began to love His fellow man."

But the Bible never states that or teaches it.

Another friend of ours once said to me; "It's the Holy Spirit's job to convict people. We're just supposed to love them."

That is also not quite accurate. 

The apostle Paul wrote to one of his disciples:

“Holding fast the faithful word as he has been taught, that he may be able, by sound doctrine, both to exhort and convict those who contradict.” (Titus 1:9)

The Holy Spirit lives in us. He speaks through us as we speak the Word to people. We are a temple of the Holy Spirit. We are commanded to preach, and speak the Truth in love, This is how God gets His message out to people who need to hear it. Once His message has been received by a person, then the Holy Spirit will convict their heart about it, as they openly receive it.

“For since, in the wisdom of God, the world through wisdom did not know God, it pleased God through the foolishness of the message preached to save those who believe.” (1 Corinthians 1:21)

So what does it mean to repent?

It literally means to turn from your sin, and turn and go the other direction, towards God. And to change your mind, and think differently afterward.

"Change my mind about what?" you may ask.

To change your mind that you don't need God or need saving. To change your mind that you are okay without Him. To change your mind if you think you're not a sinner, and that you haven't broken God's laws.

Paul the apostle wrote:

“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” (Romans 3:23)

As well as:

“There is none righteous, no, not one.” (Romans 3:10)

Jesus Himself said:

“No one is good but One, that is, God.” (Mark 10:18)

We all need Jesus and we all need saving. And only Jesus can save.

And He loves the whole world with a love beyond our full comprehension.

Jesus said:

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.  And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.  But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.” (John 3:16-21)

We need to share the entire truth of what Jesus said with people. Not just that God loves them. But also why He went to the cross to save themfrom their sin.

Speak to the hearts and spirits of people. God can only change individuals and nations from the inside out.

All people need Jesus.



God is Love and Love Never Fails.

Friday, August 7, 2015

Spiritual Mine Fields

"Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, redeeming the time because the days are evil." (Ephesians 5:15-16)


Take away the frightening warning sign, and the beach pictured above looks completely harmless, peaceful, and serene.

But when someone planted explosive mines along this beach, they did not post any signs warning people of their presence. That’s the purpose of hiding land mines—to catch your enemy off guard and destroy him.

Such are the pitfalls in the spiritual world—the unseen realm.

Many Christians will concede that there must be a Devil, because the Bible says so. But most, it seems, fail to acknowledge his existence and destructive presence in their personal lives. And in so doing, many have already lost the spiritual battle, because they failed to acknowledge there is a battle to begin with.

The Apostle warns us:

"Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." (1 Peter 5:8)

Satan is not just an adversary. He is your adversary. It’s personal with him. He is out to destroy you and yours. Jesus said of Satan:

“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.” (John 10:)

However, many people today seem to have forgotten these warnings in Scripture. Since they can’t see the Devil they act like he doesn’t even exist. “Out of sight, out of mind.”

Watch out.

Satan has placed carefully hidden spiritual land mines in the areas of your life where he knows he can hurt you the most. And he knows that he will eventually get to you because most people aren’t looking for them. We carelessly stroll along the beach of life, oblivious to the schemes of the wicked one, and the warnings given of him in God’s Word.

Is it any wonder that so many of us are getting our spiritual butts kicked?

The Apostle Paul gives us this stern admonition:

“So then do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is.” (Eph 5:17)

Some of Satan’s most effective land mines, carefully disguised to destroy God’s people are: lust, greed, envy, pride, division, idolatry and unforgiveness. In the Garden of Eden, Satan had three primary arrows stashed in his devilish quiver, ready to unleash against God’s people: "The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life” (1 John 2:16). Doubt and unbelief are also very effective weapons Satan is using against God’s people. “Did God really say?” (Genesis 3:1)

What is the “will of the Lord” that Paul admonishes us to understand?

“Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.” (Eph 5:1-2)

Jesus loved us by sacrificing Himself, and by warning people of Hell, and He told us to repent and turn from our sin. He did not condemn people, but He also never told people that their sin was okay. Jesus came to save us from our sin. Love always tells people the Truth of God’s Word.

After telling us what to do, Paul warns us what not to do:

“But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partakers with them.” (Eph 5:3-7)

I believe one of Satan’s most effective weapons used against many Christians today, is to deceive them through empty words—watered-down teaching, diluting and diminishing God’s Word, rationalizing some sin as okay because it is so acceptable in today’s twisted culture. “Well, (that sin) is a gray area, and I don’t want to judge.”

This is the same lie that Satan used in the Garden: “Did God really say?” He convinced God’s people to doubt His Word. And this is happening today more and more. Paul warned us that a time is coming, and now is, when people will no longer endure sound doctrine, but will, because of their desires, find themselves teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear. (2 Tim 4:3)

“Everything exposed by the light becomes visible.” (Eph 5:13)

We’re told in the New Testament to expose false doctrine. Light exposes darkness. It’s not “love” to let people go on believing a lie because we don’t want to risk offending them. God’s wrath comes on the disobedient, not on the obedient.

“Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.” (James 3:13-16)

You see this in so many divorce battles today. Bitter envy and selfishness are accompanied by disorder and every kind of evil behavior and hypocrisy. Someone who is hell-bent on destroying their spouse is usually living the most sinful lifestyle imaginable, and through their greed and disobedience, will bring God’s wrath on their life.

But the person whose life and actions reflect goodness and humility, have demonstrated that they are truly wise and understanding. They know what the will of the Lord is.

“The wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; peaceable, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.” (James 3:17-18)

Peace will be upon everything you do, if you walk in the wisdom of God, which is always pure, peaceable and gentle, willing to yield, and devoid of hypocrisy.

“For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." (2 Cor 10:3-5)

Part of waging spiritual war, is to first ask God for His wisdom of what spiritual strongholds are present in your personal life, family, and even in the culture of your city and country. And to acknowledge that these strongholds must be pulled down and demolished.

Then, only through using our spiritual weapons which are mighty in God—namely; prayer, love, fellowship and God’s Word—can we begin to pull down and demolish spiritual strongholds that can never effectively be fought against using fleshly or worldly methods.

I recently watched a very moving television special about the many soldiers suffering from serious Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). The interviewer asked a large group of men, by a show of hands, if given the chance, how many would want to go right back to the fight? All the men but one immediately shot up their hands. The interviewer asked, “Why?” One soldier said, “Because of the camaraderie; because you were with your band of brothers day and night.” The soldier then said, “But once you lose that, you can never get it back.”

For Christians, we have to get that kind of brotherhood back. We can’t afford not to. Too many guys are going Lone Ranger out there. Suffering from spiritual PTSD, they have pulled back, isolating themselves from fellowship.

Spiritually, we’re in the foxhole of life together. We need each other, to hold each other up. To pray for one another, for our families, and for God’s wisdom. To watch each other’s backs.


As my good friend used to say often:

“This is life or death.”



—God is Love and Love Never Fails.





Sunday, July 5, 2015

Navigating These Dark Times

“They mount up to the heavens, they go down again to the depths; their soul melts because of trouble. They reel to and fro, and stagger like a drunken man, and are at their wits’ end.” (Psalm 107:26-27)

Does the world right now feel like the dark, stormy sea pictured above?

And do you sometimes feel like you're in that small boat, hanging on for dear life? 

Do things in this rapidly decaying, wicked culture feel like they are spinning out of control?

I heard a pastor-type recently say that things are this bad in  America because, "We allowed it to happen!"

Well sir, I didn't allow it happen!

I didn't vote for the corrupt, liberal politicians who have all but kicked God out of our government, schools and nation.  I didn't give a small majority of five unelected lawyers in black robes my okay to rule the way they did on perhaps the most controversial and important issue of our day.  I didn't give public schools my permission to allow confused children to use opposite sex bathrooms just because little Billy believes he is really a girl.

Today even the word "love" has been perverted.

No sir, I didn't allow any of these things to happen.

But God, in His infinite wisdom, has allowed these things to happen.

Why?

Because Godwho is the only Judgehas, for now, given this world of men, the moral agency of free will. And one day, probably sooner than you think, He will come down here and judge the world in His righteousness, according to His standards of perfection.

One day, all men and women will have to stand before God, and give an account of themselves to Him. The "books will be opened."

"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books." (Revelation 20:12)

One day God will come down and set all things right. 

He will put all wickedness, perversion, corruption, and injustice under His feet. And He will not be asking the Supreme Court justices for their ruling on His judgments. He will not ask the ACLU for their opinion on anything. He will not allow the wicked culture of this planet to sway His views. He will not be "politically correct."

The other day I read this quote:

"The question is not Why would a loving God send people to Hell. The question is Why would people choose Hell over a loving God?"

People will surely scoff at this, but the reality is, God doesn't send people to Hell, they send themselves there. And they do so by rejecting Christ and what He did for all people, by going to the Cross to die for our sins. 

Jesus said:

“Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance.” (Mark 2:17)

The laws will no doubt eventually be changing, and faithful Christian people who do as Jesus did, preaching the Gospel and repentance from sin, will be accused, tried and convicted of "hate crimes." Violent persecution, never before experienced in America, will likely become common place.

Mega churches of five to twenty thousand people, complete with luxurious coffee shops and jumbo TV screens, may become empty shells in the near future.  We here in America may soon be meeting 'illegally' in small house churches, the way our Christian brothers and sisters currently do in Communist China.

Don't think it can't happen here.

I don't think anyone can argue that the Last Days "perilous times" that the apostle Paul wrote of, are fast upon us.

"But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God." (2 Timothy 3:3-5)

Most people in today's twisted culture seem to despise what is right, pure and good. They call evil good, and good, evil. 

So how do we navigate these dark times?

By remaining steadfast in Christ. Steadfast in the Truth of His Word. And steadfast in His Love.

But we must change from being people who merely talk the right Christian talk, and then forsake Christ in our walk.

My heart's desire is that my life, walk, thoughts, speech, and actions will align with God's Word. With His will. Not in a legalistic way... But as an expression of my thankfulness and love to Jesus.

Friends, we can't talk about the wonders of God's grace, and then knowingly use it as a cloak to hide behind with the intent of justifying our sin. If you are practicing and living in any kind of ongoing sexual immorality, thinking you will escape God's judgment...please, think again. 

Jesus said He came to call sinners to repentance. And if you haven't confessed and turned from your sexual immorality, (or any other sin), you are not under His grace. Without repentance, there is no salvation.

This is the solemn warning Jesus gives to all who refuse to turn from their sinful ways:

“Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!" (Matthew 7:21-23)

You can't be salt and light to a lost world if you're living like a lost soul yourself. You have absolutely nothing to offer them.

If you are struggling, having doubts, or are troubled and at your wits end, there is only one thing you can do: 

“Then they cry out to the Lord in their trouble, and He brings them out of their distresses. He calms the storm, so that its waves are still. Then they are glad because they are quiet; so He guides them to their desired haven.” (Psalm 107:28-30)

The early church in the days following Jesus' death and resurrection, gathered in homes, praying for one another, and that the Word of God and the Gospel would have free course in their land. That souls would be saved. That God would be glorified in and through simple men and women; peasants, tent makers, farmers and fishermen. That He would empower them by His Spirit and use them for His purpose wherever they lived and worked. That His love would touch every lost heart and soul. And that all people would come to know Jesus Christ as their Savior.

Wherever God has placed you, He wants to use you.

Will you let Him?


For more on sharing the Gospel, please see:
http://marriage-miracles.blogspot.com/2014/10/the-bridge.html




God is Love and Love Never Fails.



Wednesday, June 24, 2015

What Should We Do?

"Yet for Your sake we are killed all day long; We are accounted as sheep for the slaughter." (Psalm 44:22)

Recently, President Obama was quoted as saying:
"There’s a sense....that the world is spinning so fast and nobody is able to control it."
I doubt he knows just how true that statement was..

There is only One who is able to control it...Who holds the whole world in His hands.

So many today are living in fear of a satanic group of terrorists who are wreaking havoc in the middle east; killing, raping, beheading, even crucifying anyone who does not adhere to their radical, Islamic extremist beliefs. I will not mention that evil organization by name as they deserve no mention or publicizing here, or anywhere else.

Those considered to be prognosticators are saying that something big and bad is going to happen to our nation soon. But few offer any specifics on what we should do about it.

So what should we do?

Think about what true followers of Christ did 1900 years ago, when they were being burned alive as human candles. Sawn in two. And fed to lions. What did they do?

They kept preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ to a lost and dying world.

They suffered for Christ's namesake.

A man we know has been in a horrific Iranian prison now for more than 1,000 days. Many petitions have been signed, and leaders of nations spoken to. Many have called the White House demanding this man's release. What more can we do? 

What did the disciples of Jesus do 1900 years ago?

"And when Peter had come to himself, he said, “Now I know for certain that the Lord has sent His angel, and has delivered me from the hand of Herod and from all the expectation of the Jewish people.”

So, when he had considered this, he came to the house of Mary, the mother of John whose surname was Mark, where many were gathered together praying. And as Peter knocked at the door of the gate, a girl named Rhoda came to answer. When she recognized Peter’s voice, because of her gladness she did not open the gate, but ran in and announced that Peter stood before the gate. But they said to her, “You are beside yourself!” Yet she kept insisting that it was so. So they said, “It is his angel.”

Now Peter continued knocking; and when they opened the door and saw him, they were astonished. But motioning to them with his hand to keep silent, he declared to them how the Lord had brought him out of the prison. And he said, “Go, tell these things to James and to the brethren.” And he departed and went to another place."
(Acts 12:11-17)

How many followers of Christ are gathered together today praying?

Praying for our nation?  Praying for the lost?  Praying for our friend who is stuck in the Iranian prison?

The Apostle Paul wrote that the weapons of our warfare are not fleshly, or physical. But are mighty in God for the pulling down of strongholds...spiritual strongholds. We do not war against flesh and bloodagainst human beings. But against demonic principalities and powers. 

"For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places." (Ephesians 6:12)

Prayer is the weaponthe keythat opens doors; that pulls down strongholds. 

And we need to look tocry out topray toJesus Christ, the author and the finisher of our faith.

In these perilous times...these dark days... that is what we should do.



God is Love and Love Never Fails.



Wednesday, June 3, 2015

The Disciple Whom Jesus Loved

"Now there was leaning on Jesus’ bosom one of His disciples, whom Jesus loved." 
(John 13:23)

Besides Jesus, if you had to pick one favorite hero from the pages of scripture, who would it be?

Over the years, I've consistently heard the apostle Paul singled out and glorified as if he were superman.  "He's an animal!"  "He's a man's man!" "He's intense!"  "He was a maniac for Christ!" "He did more than any of the other apostles ever did!" They say.

And I suppose that's all true. 

But even though God used him to write much of the New Testament, I doubt Paul would say the same of himself were he here today to answer to such glorification.

But is that really why God sent His Son to die on the Cross? and save and call us..."To be maniacs and do more for Him than anyone else ever did?"

Somehow I doubt it.

I don't know about you, but I am not an "intense, maniac, " as some have labeled Paul.

So who is your favorite bible hero, and why?

Mine is the apostle John..."The disciple whom Jesus loved."

I know... Jesus loves all His disciples equally. He doesn't play favorites. 

But just like King David is the only man specifically called, "The man after God's own heart" in scripture, so, too, is John the only one given the title "The disciple whom Jesus loved." (See John chapters 13, 19, 20, 21).

Looking at the passage quoted at the beginning of this post, John was the only one said to have been leaning against the bosom of Jesus.  Apparently, John  so loved his Lord, Savior, and Friend, he didn't care what the rest of the group thought of him as he leaned upon his Savior.  

Intimacy with God was obviously more important to John than maintaining a macho image.

Men, can that be said for the rest of us?

Out of the original twelve disciples, John was the only man standing at the foot of the Cross when Jesus was being crucified. His only other followers there were His mother Mary and her sister, Mary Magdalene, and Mary the wife of Clopas. (See John 19:25-26)

Make a close study of the gospel of John and you will find it's not about rules, it's about relationship.

Jesus sums it up by saying, 

"He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves Me." (John 14:21)

It's about love, not legalism.

I also find it fascinating that John was the one given the Revelation by Jesus. Paul was a great apostle, and without question, much wisdom and truth was revealed to him.  

But the "Revelation of Jesus Christ" was given to John;  "the disciple whom Jesus loved."

The book of Revelation is not primarily about knowing the nuances of the details of the end times. It's about the unveiling (revelation) of Jesus Christ to us; His servants. (See Revelation 1:1)

In Revelation chapter four we see John taken up in the Spirit into the presence of the glorified Lord Himself, on His throne in Heaven. In chapter five we see John in the presence of the risen Lamb of Godthe Lion of the Tribe of Judahwho is the only one found worthy in heaven or earth, to open the scroll and its seals, and read the scroll.

For whatever reasons, I just don't relate to the "maniac, intense" A-type personality often attributed to Paul.

But I do relate to the relational disciple whom Jesus loved, who is all about intimacy with God and relationship with Him.

And though I am always blessed by reading through Paul's letters in the New Testament, I am always most drawn to the intimate, relational, loving Savior I see John tell me about, whom he loved and knew personally, in the gospel of John.

Jesus said in John's gospel:

“Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. In My Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also." (John 14:1-3)

Jesus is revealed from Genesis to Revelation.

But it becomes most profoundly real and personal to me when reading John's gospel, that I am the disciple whom Jesus loved.

You... are the disciple whom Jesus loved.



God Is Love and Love Never Fails.


Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Faith in the Deepest Waters

"Hope itself is like a star; not to be seen in the sunshine of prosperity, but only to be discovered in the night of adversity." (C.H. Spurgeon)


Have you ever, or are you now experiencing a time of real trial and adversity in your life?

By "real" trial and adversity, I don't mean discontinuing your satellite dish service because the economy stinks. I'm  not talking about the 'sacrifice' of giving up the Range Rover, or your summer house on the lake, because times are tough.

No, I mean real adversity. Crushing trials.

Crushing adversity; such as, your spouse, child, or best friend just passed away. 

Real trials; such as your husband has been in prison for his Christian faith in a hostile Islamic country for years and you don't know when you will see him again. 

Real adversity; such as your wife just dumped you like yesterday's garbage and ran off with another man, leaving you alone with your children.  

Crushing trials; such as your child or grandchild just committed suicide.

We can't even begin to understand what someone else is going through until we have walked in their shoes.

Faith.

It's easy to have faith when things are going well. 

When you're young and strong, it's no problem to take that hill. When your marriage is rocking, you feel invincible. When your health is perfectcan't touch this! When you have a great job and plenty of money in the bank, you can kick back in the hammock with your iced tea and relax. 

Having faith is easy when life is easy.

But when you are really testedwhen your life, marriage, family, or health is in serious jeopardy, you really have to trust in God. When things get so bad that you can't possibly fix it by yourselfwhen all you have is your faith.

Hence the old saying:  "You'll never know Jesus is all you need until Jesus is all you have."

Having faith means to trust in, believe in, to have reliance upon. As followers of Christ, it isn't about "our great faith"... since faith itself is a gift from God.  It's all about Who we place our trust in. My faith is not in my faith. My faith, trust, reliance uponis wholly in Jesus.

Here's an account from Paul, a fellow brother in Christ, who was no stranger to trials and adversity:
“Three times I was beaten with rods; once I was stoned; three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I have been in the deep; in journeys often, in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils of my own countrymen, in perils of the Gentiles, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren; in weariness and toil, in sleeplessness often, in hunger and thirst, in fasting often, in cold and nakedness.”  (2 Corinthians 11:25-27)

How did Paul endure these perilous times of intense trials and suffering? When he asked God three times that a painful "thorn in the flesh" might be removed from him, God's response to Paul was:
“My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” 
 Paul went on to say:
"Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10) 
When we have no strength; when we can't fix it any longer; when Jesus is all we have; then we are strong: because Christ is strong in us.

"Take pleasure in my infirmities?! How can I possibly do that?! Can't you see how much I'm hurting?!"

Jesus said:  
“I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit—for without Me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5)
The longer I livethe longer I walk the narrow and difficult path of following Christthe more I'm painfully aware of just how desperately I need Jesus; every minute, of every day. Truly, without HimI can do nothing good. 

For years, throughout my life-struggles, I sought comfort and solace in men's bible study groups. And there were some good moments and friendships in those groups. We are told in scripture to study the Word.
“Study to show yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15)

However, if we're not careful, we can get so caught up in the intellectual 'study' of the word of God, that we miss the God of the Word altogether.

Jesus said:
“You search the Scriptures, for in them you think you have eternal life; and these are they which testify of MeBut you are not willing to come to Me that you may have life.” (John 5:39-40)

The whole purpose of Jesus coming to earth and dying on the Cross was to restore intimacy between God and man. He wants us to come to Him. It's personal. He wants a relationship with you, with me. He gave His life on the Cross for that intimacy of personal relationship with us.

Don't drive yourself crazy trying to understand why she left you. Stop trying to figure out why God would let him die. You won't understand it. It won't make sense now. It may later. It may never.

God's thoughts are higher than our thoughts. His ways, higher than our ways. Only God knows why He allows things to happen in our lives. He has a purpose for allowing them to happen. Just trust Him in it.

All you can do, should do, by far the best thing to do; is call out to Him. Come to Himthat you may have life.

As a friend once put it;
"Sometimes the best place to be is flat on your back, looking up, crying out to God"Help!"
Sometimes we can help each other. We should always try.

But while we may mean well, we are still imperfect human beings. The Word does tell us though, that part of the beauty of the Body of Christ is that we can comfort others who are going through the same kind of troubles that we've been through:,

“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4)

But only Jesus can truly fill the empty places in our hearts. Those dark places of pain, loneliness, rejection, sadness, grief, depression, and hopelessness.

God has always been with me through every trial I've faced. He doesn't always take away the pain and suffering. Sometimes He does. But not often. I used to really struggle to try and understand why.

One day I cried out to Him in my desperation and said, "Lord, You can do all things! You could change us in an instant, and we would no longer sin and struggle any more. Why do You leave us in this condition?!!"

He said:  "So you'll stay close to Me."




God is Love, and Love Never Fails.


Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Unmet Expectations

"Nor is there salvation in any other..." (Acts 4:12)

Have you ever used the expression, "soul mate?"  Or, "love of my life?"

Looking closely at the picture of the divided couple above, do either of those expressions seem to accurately describe the current reality of their relationship?

I believe the majority of (not all, but many) people fall into one of two categories;
1).   You have great expectations that you will one day find that "perfect person for you" who will "complete you." One who will be "your soul mate." The "love of your life."
2).   You have unmet expectations in your relationship that have left you bewildered, wondering, "why haven't things turned out the way I thought they would? Why am I sometimes still so lonely, unhappy, and unfulfilled?"
Blaise Pascal, a famous French philosopher correctly said:
"There is a God-shaped vacuum in the heart of every man which cannot be filled by any created thing, but only by God the Creator, made known through Jesus Christ."
The reality is, we human beings try to fill up the hurting, lonely and empty spaces in our hearts with other things... with other people. With everything but God.

In my own family tree, there is a long history of medicating to numb the pain, pressures and reality of this life. Many also seek peace and tranquility in escaping to the wilderness. But I've tried that for years, and no lasting peace or tranquility is to be found out there.

Since the dawn of civilization people have sought out love and fulfillment in jumping from one sexual relationship to the next. But our hearts and still left empty, aching, and alone.

Even for those who publicly tell others they have been happily married for years, if we're being completely honest, will privately wonder why things really haven't fully turned out as we'd once hoped they would.

Over the many years and seasons of singleness, separation and marriage, through countless hours of reading and studying endless books about relationships, feelings and emotions, and from talking to many people about this topic, the truth I've learned is, we can never find true, lasting peace, joy, and fulfillment, in seeking our validation in and from other people.

And yet, I'd dare say that we all do this, every day of our lives. Oh, maybe not knowingly or intentionally. But in one way or another, we tend to put another personeither a person present in our life, or someone hoped for in our futureon a pedestal, placing all our hopes upon them, to make us feel happy, fulfilled and validated.

However, in so doing, we have set them up for certain failure. Because no one, not any other human being, can fill that God-shaped vacuum in our hearts, that only God in the Person of Jesus Christ can fill.

What we don't realize, is that when we put another human being on that pedestalon the throne of our heart that only God rightfully deserves to inhabitwe have made him or her an idol. We will never be at peace or fulfilled without having first placed our entire heart fully in God's hands.

And after living a life of one unmet expectation after another, we become bitter, resentful and cynical.

Earlier in my life, my cynical mantra was, "Don't expect too much, you'll just be disappointed!"

And that was from a life of placing all my expectations on other people for what they should be, for me. It was all about me.

In marriage, we should always place the needs of our spouse above our own needs. And if both husband and wife are doing this unselfishly out of unconditional love, you have the makings of a pretty good marriage.

However, some have hardened their hearts and say, "Well, since I can't fully meet all of his/her needs anyway, then why should I even try! It's not my responsibility! They should just look to God to meet their needs!" And in so doing, many a heartless man or woman have neglected their spouse, causing a lot of pain, heartache and lonliness.

God made the purpose for marriage very clear when He created Eve as a wife for Adam. Do you know what that purpose was?

Companionship. 

He said,

"It is not good for the man to be alone." (See Genesis 2:18)

But God created us first and foremost for Himself; for His good pleasure. And we are not to put any other human being, not even our own spouse of children before God. He says to do so is idolatry.

The first and greatest commandment is to love the Lord your God with all of your heart, with all of your soul, with all of your mind, and with all of your strength. (See Mark 12:30) Then, the second commandment is to love others as yourself.

The Lord Jesus is God, and God is Love. He is the only Way, the Truth and the Life. Peace and rest for our weary and thirsty souls can only be found in Him.

Jesus said:

"Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)

He is the only source of true peace, joy, happiness, validation and fulfillment.



God is Love and Love Never Fails.